
THANKS TO ALL THAT HAVE LIT CANDLES
FOR ALL MY ANGELS. MY NEW EMAIL IS
joycebailey95@yahoo.com
love each one of you. will be back soon hopefully


To My Husband...My Best Friend....
RAY
When friends say that we are unique, I know that it is true -- You're were so much more than just a spouse; You've been my best friend, too. The friend who shares my dearest dreams, The feelings of my heart, Who's never far away from me Though we're far apart, yet so close to each other You made my days, my world, my life So meaningful and new -- And that is why I'll always be So much in love with you. I will always miss you.
Love you, Honey!!!
YOUR WIFE----JOYCE

This memorial website was created in the memory of my

RAY MARLEN BAILEY
who was born in maybeury West Virginia on September 09, 1935 and He died on May 9, 2006 at Princeton Hospital. He will never be forgotten.

other websites
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ALWAYS BLESSINGS NEVER LOSSES




Our Heart
You are the heart of the family And we miss you every day But the love you gave to us Will help us light our way.
You taught us so very much To love others without reserve We will try to make you proud It's the legacy you deserve.
You're such a special man The base of our family tree. The memories will never fade In our hearts you will always be.
Although you had to leave us We know with certainty That we'll be together again For all of eternity.
 THANK YOU DONNA FOR THE GRAPHICS
  
I STILL CAN'T BELIEVE YOU ARE GONE. I GO TO SLEEP MISSING YOU , AND AWAKE REALIZING THAT I HAVE TO SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE WITHOUT YOU. I HAVEN'T COME TO GRIPS WITH WHAT HAPPENED YET, PERHAPS I NEVER WILL, THE GRIEF IS OVERWHELMING. I GRIEVE FOR YOU EVERY MINUTE


 thank you Donna
  





  
Delightful and loving, Loved and admired,
Ray, you're my hero,  My life you've inspired. And when all my blessings
Are counted each day,  I thank God in heaven For you when I pray.

Ray, thanks for your presence Throughout thick and thin; You were more than my husband,
YOU WERE & ARE EVERYTHING TO ME


Rainbows represent the end to all suffering. And Gods promise of hope.
 We have hope we will see you again some day soon. Until then we'll be missing you and loving you.





 THANK YOU JUDIE FOR THE GRAPHICS


 WE HAD MORE THAN 12 WONDERFUL YEARS TOGETHER

So many years we spent together Loving partners throughout our life. And even after all those years I am so proud to say I'm your wife.
And when I said, I take thee Ray I meant it with all my heart. I knew when I looked in your eyes We would never be apart.
No words can ever express The depth of my love for you Or how my heart is breaking I have never been so blue.
I know one day my darling That together we'll someday be. And when that day is upon us Please wait at the gate for me.

LOVING YOU ALWAYS -YOUR WIFE JOYCE
 THANK YOU DONNA

 OCTOBER 2,1993
Joyce With you, I've shared each moment, The best years of my life. I'm glad I was your husband, I'm proud you were my wife.


Until I Fell In Love With You
I never realized that one person could light up my whole world... until I saw you smile.
I never dreamed that one touch could change my life... until you took my hands in yours...
I never knew that I could love someone so deeply, completely, and endlessly... until I fell in love with you
 thank you sarah


ONE DAY CLOSER TO YOU
I sometimes ask the Lord Why he took you before me, And though he's never answered- I guess it was meant to be.
I tell myself you're watching, That you're never really far away, I sometimes feel the slightest touch When I bow my head to pray.
I know heaven must have a window With no curtain to hide the view, I know you probably stand there often And watch me missing you.
I know you're helping me to go on, You're guiding me through the pain, I somehow sense you're telling me, There's more sunshine now then rain.
Each new day now dawns with meaning, Something inside of me rings so true, Today will slip into yesterday And I'll be one day closer to you!



 Thank you sarah



  

I whisper your name .... to myself. I whisper .... I love you. I whisper ....I still think of you. I whisper ....Goodnight and till we meet again. I whisper.... Take care and hope your angel ears can hear my whispers here on earth. I whisper ....because I am afraid that if I speak too loud, my heart will hear and break again....
So I just whisper... Ray



"WISHING ON A
FALLING STAR" IF ONLY MY WISH WOULD COME TRUE.
   







Tears.
Oh, how I've cried Ray Cried for all the good times. Cried for the things you will never see, Cried for what was meant to be.
So many Tears. What do they amount to? Nothing. Treasuring the memories I have of you. Mourning the years you have lost. Yearning for you my sweetheart.
Tears of guilt,sorrow, regret. even happiness. So many emotions flooding through me on this rollercoaster of grief.
Only If. Tears shed for You. Tears shed missing You. Loving You.
All these Tears Ray All for You.
Tears. echoing the pain held in my heart. The overwhemingly pain that consumes me daily.
Tears flowing from the bottom of me heart. sobbing for the lost moments, memories,the happier times.
Years will pass. But what will remain. Pain,Love,Sadness, The Tears.

cant live without you cant breathe without you cant sleep without you cant eat without you
wont be the same without you cant be the same without you never be the same without you life is wrong, without you
life has stopped without you my world has stopped without you my heart wont beat without you i need you.




I WILL LOVE YOU WITH EVERY BEAT OF MY HEART

God knows how much I miss you, Never shall your memory fade, Loving thoughts shall ever wander, To the spot where you are laid. Though absent you are ever near, Still missed and loved, always dear




Remembering
Go ahead and mention my loved one, the one that died, you know. Don't worry about hurting me further, The depth of my pain doesn't show.
Don't worry about making me cry, I'm already crying inside, Help me to heal by releasing, the tears that I try to hide.
I'm hurt when you just keep silent, pretending he didn't exist, I'd rather you mention Ray knowing that he has been missed.
You ask me how I am doing, I say "pretty good" or "fine", But healing is something ongoing, I feel it will take a lifetime.

Loving you everyday; is all I seem to do, I don't want you to forget, that I'm waiting to be with you. I'm not really sure how it works up there, are you waiting for me too? I hope you don't forget me, because I'm already sad and blue.
I'm trying to be strong, as you would want me to be. I'm doing my very best, as you can probably see. I learned all this from You, I know this is what I need to do.
I'll wake up every morning, and try to carry on. Trying NOT to remember, My True Love is GONE. I'll try to do all the things, that need to be done. I'll do them while thinking of my Hun.
So with my time I have, I will try to make it great, When all I want to do, is stand in line and wait. For that day
JOYCE
 A Heart Once Whole
A heart once whole, filled with joy, That sang with gladness each new morn, Is torn and bleeding, jagged wounds Hiding pain behind a mask that's worn.
No one can see the terrible scars, Shattered heart that can not sleep. It's hidden well, silently screaming Cradled in a pool of tears, so deep.
A wife's heart is strong and sturdy To hold the love and pain it must bear. But when it loses the husband it loves Ripped apart, it lies bleeding there.
How can a heart so hurt and broken, Have the strength for carrying on? How can it find the courage and will With so much of it torn away and gone?
Questions, no answers. Broken hearts Still beat. No reason for How or Why. Will it mend? Will it ever feel joy? Healing so slowly as time passes by.
Waiting and longing for THAT time To see you, touch you once again! One day at a time is all I can do. Heaven is where broken hearts mend.


I will say unto the Lord, Thou art my hope and my stronghold; my God, in Him will I trust.

You will have sorrow: but I will see you again, & your heart shall rejoice, & your joy no man taketh from you. John16:22."

There will always be a heartache, and often a silent tear. But always a precious memory of the days when you were here."


"You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing which you think you cannot do. "
Eleanor Roosevelt

Forever Changed
Can you see the change in me? It may not be so obvious to you I participate in family activities. I attend family reunions.. I help plan holiday meals.
You tell me you're glad to see that I don't cry anymore. But I do cry! When everyone has gone - when it is safe- the tears fall. I cry in privacy so my family won't worry. I cry until I am exhausted and can finally sleep. You tell me you admire my strength and my positive attitude.
But I am not strong, I feel that I have lost control; and I panic when I think about tomorrow.... next week.... next year. I go about the routine of my job. I complete my assigned tasks. I drink coffee and smile.
You tell me you are glad to see I'm "over" the death of my loved one. But I'm not "over" it. If I get overit, I will be the same as before my loved one died. I will never be the same.
At times I think I am beginning to heal but the pain of losing someone I loved so much has left a permanent scar on my heart. I visit my neighbors.
You tell me that you're glad to see I'm holding up so well. But I'm not holding up well. Sometimes I want to lock the door and hide from the world. I spend time with my friends, I seem calm and collected. I smile when appropriate. You tell me it's good to see me back to my "old self" But I will never be back to my "old self". Death and grief, have touched my life....
and I am changed forever.

"RAY "

The Widow's Cry
She sits and stares in silent loneliness, aching for his touch, his reassuring voice. Lost in sorrowful pain in a deep lonely abyss, filled with tears, a heart broken without choice.
Reaching out in desperation for his loving kiss, or to borrow warm flesh to substitute that which is missed. To feel again the strength and passion of her man, to take and give once again all that she can.
To feel the warm caress of his love in her heart, and to once again her lonely pain depart. To the cold grave beside him she longs to go, to sleep forever in the arms of the love they know.
She hears his voice and looks to find no trace, of his warm and tender loving face. Nor hears his footsteps fall or voice echo in the hall, for he has gone, he has answered God's call.
Once again to hear him laugh or even cry. or even just another chance to say goodbye. She whispers, "I love you Ray, why have you gone?" Then she hears a voice reply, "Hush!! my darling, don't cry, we shall never say goodbye, for our love can never die"
"Take our dreams my sweet love and live them for us both, for with you my darling it has been an honour to be betroth. Think of the good times and the warm love we shared, our laughing and sad times together can't be compared."

Never a tear falls God won't see. Never a moment when God won't care. Never a moment when He won't hear a prayer



Ray
You were a man that loved with all his heart. You always had a gentle spirit about you I miss you so much. Just the touch of your hand on my face, Your smile I miss your voice that told me you loved me many time a day. all this, I will never forget. I will always love you you will remain a part of my heart forever



Red roses are a symbol of undying love. May you always feel the love of your angel when you see a rose.

Memories of our loved ones will keep them with us forever.

We can all be angels to one another. We can choose to obey the still small stirring within, the little whisper that says, Go. Ask. Reach out. Be an answer to someone's plea. You have a part to play. Have faith.' We can decide to risk that He is indeed there, watching, caring, cherishing us as we love and accept love. The world will be a better place for it. And wherever they are, the angels will dance." -Joan Wester Anderson

And God said,
I said, "God, I hurt." And God said, "I know." I said, "I cry alot." And God said, " That's why I gave you tears." I said, "Life is so hard." And God said, "That's why I gave you loved ones." I said, "But my loved one died." And God said, "So did mine." I said, "It's such a great unbearable loss." And God said, "I saw mine nailed to the cross." I said, "But your Son lives." And God said, "So does yours." I said, "Where are they now?" And God said, "My Son is by my side and your Angel is in my arms....."

A Grandfather Like You
Throughout the years, you've always been A wonderful man you see When I was small you took the time to bounce me on your knee.
As I grew older you were there I only had to call I knew that I could count on you You'd never let me fall.
So many hard times in my life You've helped to get me through I'm so glad God gave me A grandfather as special as you. ~Unknown~

What Makes a Father Or a Grandfather
God took the strength of a mountain, The majesty of a tree, The warmth of a summer sun, The calm of a quiet sea, The generous soul of nature, The comforting arm of night, The wisdom of the ages, The power of the eagle's flight, The joy of a morning in spring, The faith of a mustard seed, The patience of eternity, The depth of a family need, Then God combined these qualities, When there was nothing more to add, He knew His masterpiece was complete, And so,
He called it ... Dad He added wisdom and called him Grandad

TO MY STEPDAD "RAY" I LOVE AND MISS YOU HAPPY FATHER'S DAY IN HEAVEN
Our fathers toil with hands and heart To make our lives complete. They quietly brave the winter cold, Endure the summer heat.
Our fathers' lives are busy, but There's always time for us. They boldly face the ups and downs And seldom ever fuss.
Our fathers are the greatest dads. We know you know this, too. But thank you for the chance to share Our love for them with you.
  
Farewell My Precious PawPaw
Farewell my precious PawPaw Your race on earth is done You now live in Heaven With God and his gracious son Although my heart mourns for you and my eyes are filled with tears I am thankful that I had you to love and guide me through the years Yoy were always an inspiration Your strength, it knew no bounds I know that God has blessed you with many Heavenly crowns. So, farewell my precious paw paw You will always be in my heart i will remember your gentle teachings From which I'll never part. ~Unknown

What Is A Dad
God took the strength of a mountain, The majesty of a tree, The warmth of a summer sun, The calm of a quiet sea, The generous soul of nature, The comforting arm of night, The wisdom of the ages, The power of the eagle's flight, The joy of a morning in spring, The faith of a mustard seed, The patience of eternity, The depth of a family need, Then God combined these qualities, When there was nothing more to add, He knew His masterpiece was complete, And so, He called it ... Dad ~Author unknown~


I drove into the cemetery With tears in my eyes today I placed a flower upon your grave And bowed my head to pray
Looking at the simple marker Nothing fancy, or overdone I couldn't help but cry as I read The birth and death of my husband
I told you how much I missed you Your face I could clearly see You have died, but are not lost You will always be a part of me
So I'll say good bye for a little while Sleep in peace and always know I didn't want to give you back to God He took your hand, and I had to let go
Some people dream of angels, I held one in my arms
 UNCLE RAY WE WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU
We think about you always, we talk about you still, you have never been forgotten and you never will. We hold you close within our hearts, and there you will remain, To walk and guide us through our lives until we meet again.
 "We miss and love you so much Uncle Ray you always opened your heart and home to us we miss your love and warmth."

PawPaw is LOVE
Love is you And always will be because we love you. We will both be in each others heart because that is what love is. we will always love you!!

My Precious PawPaw
I wish I could see you one more time Come walking through the door, But I know that is impossible, I will hear your voice no more. I know you can feel my tears And you don't want me to cry, Yet my heart is broken Because I can't understand why, Someone so precious had to die. I pray that God will give me strength, And somehow get me through, As I struggle with this heartache That was caused by losing you. ~Unknown~

Grandpa
Delightful and loving, Loved and admired, Grandpa you're my hero, My life you've inspired. And when all my blessings Are counted each day, I thank God in heaven For grandpa when I pray. grandpa thanks for your presence Throughout thick and thin; You're more than a grandparent You're my wonderful friend.

The Ring

She walks alone waiting for him to return everyone wonders why she just can't see She is waiting by a door that will never open A sun that will never rise But they never saw the love she did in his eyes They talk to each other now through their dreams She remembers the day he gave her that beautiful ring And the day that she gives up on the door that supposedly will never open is the day she returns the ring to him While he is lying in a coffin Being lowered into the sand With all their hopes, dreams, and memories Locked on one woman's hand.

Until We Meet Again
Each morning when I awake I know that you are gone. And no one knows the heartache As I try to carry on.
My heart still ache with sadness and many tears still flow. What it meant to lose you, No one will ever know.
My thoughts are always with you, your place no one can fill. In life I loved you dearly, In death I love you still.
There will always be a heartache, and often a silent tear, But always a precious memory Of the days when you were here.
If tears could make a staircase, And heartaches make a lane, We'd walk the path to heaven And bring you home again.
I hold you close within my heart, And there you will remain, To walk with me throughout my life Until we meet again.
My family chain is broken now, And nothing will be the same, But as God calls us one by one, The chain will link again





"I LOVE MY HUSBAND"

HE WAS DEFINITELY

I WILL LOVE YOU
As long as I can dream, As long as I can think, As long I have memory... I will love you As long as I have eyes to see and ears to hear and lips to speak... I will love you. As long as I have a heart to feel,a soul stirring with in, An imagination to hold you... I will love you. As long as there is time, As long there is love, As long as I have a breath to speak your name... Because I love you more than anything... In all the world.





TO MY WIFE




At night At night I lay and think of you hoping my wishes and dreams come true At night I wonder can this be t he end is this all that's left At night I wish we could go to the way things were At night I lay and cry about the things that happened and how it all ended At night I lay and think of us, I mean you and I At night I realize there's no more us At night I dream of us together again At night I wish for us to be together again But in the morning I realize it was all A dream.

An emptiness fills the room. A sorrow fills my soul. Tears ripple through my body, Shuddering out of control. I know that you feel no pain. Happy in your new home. But constantly we weep, Feeling so alone. We miss your smile, I really miss your hugs . ,But most of all your love. I’m sure one day in heaven, We will all meet again. But in all honesty Ray Until then I just can’t understand…..
I love you and miss you every day

 THE TEARS WON'T STOP FALLING

My Spouse Has Gone
Disturbed in bed again I wake The truth is close at hand In tears my head begins to shake It's hard to understand
I'd turned to call Ray's name But then I had to weep The pillow there was just the same As when I went to sleep
I'd sought my love to touch again My hand began to slide But then Oh God the aching pain The emptiness inside
Another day just like before So empty cold and bare I raised my eyes towards the door Where last my love was there
How sad each time I'd cook a meal Then eat it on my own Oh God you know just how I feel To sit here all alone
Oh why my God had we to part? How deep is my despair Please heal Your servants broken heart Whilst here I kneel in prayer
Yet still I bless Your holy name Although my love's at rest I know my God You're not to blame For you alone know best
I know my prayer has reached Your throne I know You watch above I know in You I'm not alone I thank you for your Love

The days are getting longer, I miss you dearly. You're my one and only, I love you sincerly.
Though we're not together, And we're so far apart, We'll Always be together, Inside my heart.
It's hard not being with you, Spending time away. I wish I could be with you, Each and every day.
While we're apart, My love holds strong. Soon we'll be together, Where we belong.
But until that day comes, I will hold you in my heart. I will think of you always While we're apart.
So don't give up, it'll work. Just wait, you'll see. I will hold you in my arms, Together in heaven we will be.
But while you're away, Please remembers these words I say are true. Baby, your the greatest. Sweetheart, I love you.

LOVE IS A GIFT SO PRECIOUS AND RARE-- THERE IS NO GREATER TREASURE THAT TWO HEARTS CAN SHARE.

LOVE IS WHAT I FEEL EACH TIME YOU SMILE OR TOUCH MY HAND,
LOVE IS HOW WE KNOW EACH OTHERS THOUGHTS AND UNDERSTAND,
LOVE IS ALL THE JOYS WE SHARE, THE HAPPINESS YOU BRING,
LOVE IS WHAT YOU MEAN TO ME--- AND YOU MEAN EVERYTHING

Remember Me
To the living, I am gone. To the sorrowful, I will never return. To the angry, I was cheated. But to the happy, I am at peace. And to the faithful, I have never left. I cannot speak, but I can listen. I cannot be seen, but I can be heard. So as you stand upon a shore, Gazing at a beautiful sea, Remember Me. As you look upon a flower and admire it’s simplicity, Remember Me. Remember Me in your hearts, your thoughts, and your memories of the times we loved the times we cried, the times we fought, and the times we laughed. For if you always think of me, I will never be gone.

LAST NIGHT WHILE I WAS TRYING TO SLEEP MY HUSBAND'S VOICE DID I HEAR. I OPENED MY EYES AND LOOKED AROUND, BUT HE DID NOT APPEAR.
HE SAID::: JOYCE YOU'VE GOT TO LISTEN, YOU'VE GOT TO UNDERSTAND; GOD DIDN'T TAKE ME FROM YOU. HE ONLY TOOK MY HAND.
WHEN I CALLED OUT IN PAIN THAT DAY, THE INSTANT THAT I DIED. HE REACHED DOWN AND TOUCHED MY HAND, AND PULLED ME TO HIS SIDE.
HE PULLED ME UP AND SAVED ME, FROM THE MISERY AND PAIN. MY BODY WAS SO BADLY HURT, I COULD NEVER BE THE SAME.
MY SEARCH IS REALLY OVER NOW, I'VE FOUND HAPPINESS WITHIN, ALL THE ANSWERS TO EMPTY DREAMS, AND ALL THAT MIGHT HAVE BEEN.
I LOVE YOU ALL AND MISS YOU SO, AND I'LL ALWAYS BE NEARBY. MY BODY'S GONE FOREVER. BUT MY SPIRIT WILL NEVER DIE.
AND SO, YOU MUST ALL GO ON NOW, LIVE ONE DAY AT A TIME, JUST UNDERSTAND! GOD DIDN'T TAKE ME FROM YOU, HE ONLY TOOK MY HAND.

Brokenhearted... How can I bear the pain? So many plans . . . permanently interupted. So many dreams . . . shattered. Hopes . . . dashed. All gone. Why? Why this? Why us? Why me? Helplessness . . . hopelessness . . . Life will never be the same again. Is it even worth living? Where are you, God? I'm right here beside you, my child. Even though you may not feel my presence, I'm holding you close under the shadow of my wings. I will walk with you through this dark night. Do not shrink from weeping. I gave you tears for emotional release. Don't try to hide your grief. Let it become for you a source of healing. A process of restoration, For I have planned it so. Those who mourn shall be comforted I'll be holding on to you, Even when you feel you can't hold on to me. Seek my face, child of mine. Receive my promise, impossible as it may seem now, That joy will come in the morning. It may take much time, But I will heal your broken heart, I know the night seems endless, But MORNING WILL COME. I have promised.
 
EVERYTIME THE SUN SHINES, I KNOW THAT YOU AND GOD, ARE WALKING HAND IN HAND.








 My Own Backyard
Dear Lord, when things get hectic
And living seems so hard,
I just go out and sit awhile,
Within my own backyard.
*For there it's quiet and peaceful,
Beneath the shady trees,
And sunlight through the branches,
Accompanies every breeze.
***
There are a dozen shades of green, Designed to please the eye,
Chubby squirrels and humming birds,
....A golden butterfly.
***
The honeysuckle's perfume, Permeates the air,
And though I do not see Him,
I know that God is there.
***
The sky above my head, Is electric blue,
And there are lazy cotton clouds,
With nothing else to do,
But sail across the heavens,
And yet I know that I
Was given hope whose sturdy wings
Were also meant to fly.
***
This old world we inhabit,
Is much the worse for wear,
Beauty fades so quickly
And hearts forget to care,
*** But somehow I've discovered,
Within my own backyard,
A peaceful sanctuary,
.... In which I find the Lord.








Keep My Memory
Keep my memory with you, For memories never die; I will be there with you, When you look across the sky.
I will be there in the clouds, In the birds that fill the air; In the beauty of a fragrant rose, You will find my memory there.
You will feel me in the tenderness, Of a tiny baby's touch; You will hear me if you listen, In the twilight's gentle hush.
When your hearts are heavy, And you feel that you are alone; Just reach down deep inside of you, For your heart is now my home.
I will always be with you, I will never go away; For I will live on in your hearts, Forever and a day.

Heard the rhythym of the raindrops Dripping to the ground. Heard the rhythm of the raindrops Dropping all around. Heard the rhythm of the raindrops Drumming on the rafter. Heard the rhythm of the raindrops Drowning out our laughter.













SENDING YOU HUGS & KISSES your wife.....JOYCE
loving you forever and a day










ONE YELLOW ROSE

TO SAY I LOVE YOU



RAY
  

MY ANGEL "RAY"

 


RAY
I CAN GIVE YOU ALL THE FLOWERS I WANT TO now BUT I BELIEVE I GAVE YOU ALL THE BEST FLOWERS WHILE YOU WERE HERE WITH ME.
MY LOVE & MY DEVOTION TO YOU.
YOU ARE & HAVE BEEN THE LOVE OF MY LIFE AND YOU ARE & WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART AND MY MIND
YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN YOU WILL BE LOVED & MISSED THROUGH OUT ETERNITY. ALWAYS LOVING YOU YOUR LOVING WIFE JOYCE
RAY
I HAVE BEEN SO BLESSED IN MY LIFE TO HAVE KNOWN A MAN LIKE YOU. YOU SHOWED ME A GENTLE SIDE THAT WON'T BE FORGOTTEN. YOUR LOVE HAS SUSTAINED ME THROUGH THE VERY LONG YEAR THAT JUST PAST I LOVE NOW & WILL FOREVER. NOT GOODBYE UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN
RAY LOVED TO DANCE AND I LOVED DANCING WITH HIM. I MISS YOU SOOO..... MUCH RAY..LOVE YOU ALWAYS & FOREVER
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